So, what's happening in the SSQQ Jungle these days ?
Now guys, I know an article like
this is a little frightening. If a confirmed Bachelor like Ben can make a commitment, what
hope do the rest of you have ? Especially now that the SSQQ women are going to this
Catch a Husband Workshop. I imagine you single guys will be looking over both shoulders in
dance class in case someone is sprinkling "husband dust" on you with your backs
As you know, Dance and Romance go
hand in hand. You will just have to be vigilant. It is obvious the girls have got your
number. You had best watch out for those fire-breathing, husband-snatchin' wild women of
SSQQ or one of those hip-wiggling dames will catch you too !
However I do have one suggestion for
anti-marital self-defense. If you see a girl in class you are attracted to, immediately go
over to her and teach her how to dance the girl's part correctly. You will be safe for a
long time !
Wonder Why Men Think They Know So Much ...
A note from a lady student speaks for itself :
SSQQ Women Race for the Cure on
Saturday, October 2
SSQQ is once again fielding a group of walkers/runners for the Race for the Cure on
October 2. Last years group had a good time on the 3 mile walk. We would have
pictures to prove it if Debbie Awad had remembered to put film in her camera. (Editor's
note : Debbie promises to take pictures of all the participants this year although they
might need to remind her to check if the camera has film this time.)
There are many good reasons to support research for a cure for breast
cancer, and SSQQ has 3 excellent ones. This year, we are celebrating our survivors, Suzy
Kish, Linda Osborne and Diane Beasley, who all have bravely fought this frightening
Last year we raised almost $2000, thanks to the generosity of our
dancers, and would like to raise a similar amount this year. A donation jar will be
available at the studio and donations can also be given to any of our walkers, at the
studio or at the Longhorn on Tuesday. In fact, Debbie will be making "begging"
rounds at the Longhorn this Tuesday. Walkers currently scheduled for the 2nd are RuthAnn
Manison, Karen Nojiewski, Suzy Kish and Linda Osborne.
We will be meeting at the Mobile Mammography Van prior to the race. Any
questions can be directed to Debbie at email@example.com.
(Tax deductible checks can be made out to "Houston Komen Race for the Cure").
Editor's note : Cancer is everyone's worst nightmare. SSQQ alone has
three beautiful women who have been struck with this dreaded disease in the absolute prime
of their lives. Add in the recent tragedy of Houston Comet basketball player Kim Perrot
and it is easy to see that no one is safe. However Cancer Research has improved everyone's
chances of survival enormously. It makes no sense to sit back and reassure ourselves that
it won't happen to us. Instead it makes tremendous sense to contribute generously to a
cause as worthy as this with good old-fashioned money. We need to fight this thing
Something about Kathleen...
Occasionally there is a moment that is so
unusual that it perhaps cannot be captured in words, but we must try anyway. The story
starts on Saturday, September 18, when HBO broadcast the movie "Something About
Mary" and I watched it for the first time. When I originally saw the previews, I
thought this would be the worst movie in history. Well, I was wrong and I admit it. Action
clips work pretty well because they are mostly visual, but humor depends too much on
context to capture in "clips". The truth is, I laughed my head off ! I
even went back and watched it again with Judy a day later.
So Monday night we are in dance class. I am
dancing with a lovely lady named Mary. Recalling her name, I asked her if she had seen the
movie "Something About Mary". She smiled and replied yes. Then after a moment I
said one of the problems of having a movie named after you is if the character is
terrible, the stigma of that name is attached to you for a long time. I said, "For
example, the movie "Carrie" pretty much ruined that name for a generation."
And in fact that is true. I know absolutely no one named "Carrie". The
only "Carrie" I know changed her name to "Kerry". Smart move.
Well, Kathleen Alexander is dancing right
next to us. She has been having a tough time lately because an ear infection has ruined
her balance. She doesn't like to be beaten by anything, but several times has been knocked
woozy in Death Valley class from too many spins. And acccording to her friend Carolyn,
Kathleen's hearing hasn't been too good either. So this sets the story.
Kathleen is dancing with a guy, but trying
to listen to Mary and I talk at the same time. Mary has just finished agreeing with me
that she is fortunate her name was not "Carrie" when we change partners. The
first thing Kathleen says to me is that is her favorite movie of all time. Mary and I
exchange glances because all we have been talking about is "Carrie". Kathleen
goes on and on about what a great movie that is, how she saw it several times and was
fascinated. Well, Kathleen is a Kingwood School Teacher. Mary, who is also a school
teacher, and I are both frowning because a movie about murdering the entire student body
is no longer even a fantasy, but Kathleen insists this is the greatest movie of all time.
Finally I get Kathleen to hush for a moment. I look her in the eye and say, "Are you
telling us 'Carrie', where all those teachers and students get murdered, is your all-time
favorite movie ?"
Kathleen starts to frown. She is confused.
"Carrie ? Who said anything about 'Carrie' ? I thought you were talking
about 'Mary' !"
So Carolyn, who is dancing right next to
Kathleen, chimes in, "Rick, I told you she can't hear anything !"
Take a guess what Kathleen's new nickname
Beth Hentges resigns due to
demands of Motherhood
Beth Hentges will be retiring as a dance
instructor at the end of August. Beth and her husband Allen are the proud parents of a
darling girl named Rebecca.
Beth Hentges (nee Burns) began teaching at
SSQQ in May of 1995. She was finishing up graduate work in Child Development at the
University of Houston at the time. Although my memory is a little fuzzy, she met Allen
Hentges shortly after she started teaching. They were married in the summer of 1997. They
had a lovely wedding over at the chapel at Episcopal High School, then a great reception
at the studio. Allen's decorations in the big room were so pretty that I left the lights
up all the way to Christmas time.
Allen and Beth basically co-taught classes
together. Then not too deep into 1998 we learned that Allen and Beth were going to become
a Mom and Pop operation. Undaunted by the prospects of motherhood, Beth with Allen's help
taught right up to the last minute through September. According to my notes, Rebecca was
born on November 5, 1998. Then to my amazement, Beth was ready to come back to teaching in
January of 1999. Talk about an incredible work ethic !
But the reality is that it is tough working
a full-time job like Beth does, being a full-time Mom and a full-time wife, plus have a
part-time job that involves driving across town and giving up a much-needed evening of
rest. Although I was sad to hear the news, it didn't come as that big of a surprise. It is
time for Beth and Allen to move on. We will sure miss them ! Maybe they will come
visit us at the Halloween and the Millenium Parties ! Allen can come decorate any
time he wants ! Bye, you two. Don't be Strangers !
Ben Liles and Diana Beasley announce
Ben Liles and
Diana Beasley are getting married on Saturday, October 23. This much I know because Ben
told me himself Wednesday night, August 24. Ben and Diane have been together for well over
two years and I am very happy for both of them. Oddly, Diana's last name is one of the
studio's best kept secrets.To me, she has always been "Diane" or
"Diana". Sort of like "Cher" or "Madonna". I didn't know her
last name and neither did five other people I asked. Finally Marla Jennings came through
and solved the mystery. How Marla knows is beyond me. I think it is embarrassing to know
someone for two years and not know their last name. Even more ridiculous is having worked
so hard to finally learn her name, in two months she is going to change it anyway. I may
just call her "DB" for a while longer to get a little more mileage out of my
This is a big step for Ben. If I am correct...
(and I may not be), Ben has never been married. Mr Bachelor Ben is going to tie el knotto.
Will wonders never cease ! I have known Ben since 1987, so I know for a fact he has
been single for at least 12 years ! Ben of course has a reputation as Mr Outrageous.
He is the long-time teacher of Dirty Dancing and Sleazy Bar Whip. In an odd coincidence,
he and Diana planned a trip to England this year at the same time as Ben's annual Sleazy
Bar class... Jack Benard stepped in and reportedly misbehaved terribly, so everyone was
happy. Ben's first statement after announcing the wedding date was, "We picked that
night because I wasn't scheduled to teach !" My eyebrow raised a bit....
"Gosh, Ben, I think you are down to teach
Dirty Dancing that night !" Sure enough. Coincidence ? Maybe. Time to become
Mr. Respectable ? Maybe. At any rate, SSQQ must now look for someone naughty enough to
take Ben's place. I don't if I can find anyone as bad as Ben. He is loveably rotten.
Now as for Diana, I can't think of a lovelier
lady. Sweet, beautiful, bright, any time Diana makes an appearance at the studio, I always
smile. She is just a marvelous woman. Best wishes to both !
Judy Alexander and Clark Blanco
announce Engagement !
Wagner has informed me that Judy Alexander and Clark Blanco have announced their
engagement. Judy and Clark met here at the studio. Judy is in accounting at Riviana
Foods and Clark works for HL&P (now Reliant Energy). They made their own invitations
and mailed them out to unsuspecting friends in July. Judy and Clark are both busy
doing all the things that need to be done to bring about this event. The date is set for
Speaking of Future
Husbands, an Important Public Announcement
This just in from Ruth Ann Manison : (Sorry, Guys, this is For Girls Only !)
For those of you suffering from acute
anuptaphobia (the fear of staying single), here is something that could be entertaining and informative! The title
caught my eye and I figured it might be worth $10 or a fortune, depending.... Theres
a seminar next Wednesday, September 1st from 7-9PM called "The
Consumers Guide to Husband Material". Anybody want to go? Its $10 advance
or $13 at the door. 4100 Westheimer, Suite 235 (the Spectrum Center at Mid Lane). Make
your own reservation by calling 281/496-3283. Rita Justice, Ph.D. will be the presenter.
Let me know if you plan to attend and we can meet for dinner before. And they say women
are hard to understand....
I asked Ruth Ann
about this workshop. She said she was amazed at all the emails she got from guys about it.
One man said he was going to stand outside before and after the workshop to see if the
women treated him any differently. Another man offered to pay Ruth Ann to take notes and
to prepare him for various moves the women might try on him. He wants to have a better
defense, sort of like an anti-wedding virus preparation. Ruth Ann turned him down by
saying if anyone needed to get married, he did.
Ladies, although it is none of my
business, when it comes to finding husbands, I would imagine just hanging around SSQQ is
as effective as attending the workshop above. For example, you might recall these
headlines from just four months of the SSQQ Grapevine :
Mario Ballesteros and Linda
Chalk married in May ! (Mario and Linda met at SSQQ)
Heidi is going to be a Mom ! (former SSQQ Staffer Heidi and her husband John
Moynihan met here at SSQQ and were married last fall)
Ron Moore and Kathleen Wood get married ! (Ron and Kathleen met
Renee Risinger and BJ Downs get Married ! (Renee and BJ
met at SSQQ. They wed earlier this year. Renee recently left the staff because she is
getting ready to have a baby !)
Letitia Taitte and Jordan Kossack Announce Engagement !
Sylvia and Jeff are gettin' Hitched (Sylvia Key met Jeff Tucker
"elsewhere", but behind his back said lessons at SSQQ are what softened him up.
What do you suppose she meant ?)
Ray Jahn and Kelly Bennett get married !
David Meinert and Eileen MacPherson announce engagement ! (see below)
Bram Weisman gets Married ! (see below)
Judy Alexander and Clark Blanco announce Engagement ! (see above)
Beth Hentges resigns due to demands of Motherhood (Beth and her husband
Allen met here at SSQQ and married in 1997)
Ben Liles and Diana Beasley announce Engagement ! (see above)
The main reason men
take dance lessons is to meet women. It stands to reason when a man is attracted to a
woman, he wants to talk to her. Since all he knows she and he have in common is dance,
that seems like a reasonable place to start the conversation. Furthermore, men like to be
in control. Teaching women is a way of being in control.
That much said,
Is coaching women an effective technique in getting to know them ? Sometimes yes,
most of the time no. For the most part, women bristle when men try to teach them. For one
thing, it is a violation of their peer status. Now someone thinks they are so good they
not only know the boy's part, they suddenly think they know the girl's part better than
they do. Bad move. (unless it is a cleverly disguised anti-marital ploy !)
I love my classes at SSQQ, but I wonder if you could give me some advice about
something that has bothered me for awhile. I just read your Advice article about men who want to
instruct their partners. As the woman in that situation, what would you advise me to do?
I am asking because the problem seems to be growing in the more advanced classes.
Ironically, the guys giving the advice are the worst dancers in class, and sometimes their
instructions are just plain wrong! I dont mind friendly suggestions from a fellow
student as we learn the patterns together, and on the dance floor I can always refuse a
dance. In class, however, I have to dance with these guys many times, so I dont want
to create ill will, I just want them to stop acting like boorish dance teacher wannabes.
So far I have said nothing (but tried to look appropriately irritated) as I ignored the
free "lessons", but as the moves get more complex, its getting dangerous
in addition to being annoying. Do you have any advice?
Guys, here is my suggestion :
Ask a lady to help you learn a move. Ask them to help you practice something you just
learned in class. Women have always been pretty wonderful in this regard. They respect a
man who attempts to improve. I might add that conversation you were secretly after has a
better chance of getting off on the right foot, not the wrong one.
Salsa Rueda invades SSQQ, Thousands
Scream in Horror as
SSQQ Salsa Dancers Narrowly escape Death by Plague !
On Saturday, August 12, Aliene Rickard,
Lupe Tamayo, Samantha Sharp, Shammi Venkatachalam, Tina Parker, Nancy Breunig, Willa Wou,
Albert Navarro, Chuck Kastner, Larry Cardosa, Rodrigo Aranda, Tarkan Bozkurt, and Todd K
narrowly escaped with their lives as a mysterious infectious virus code-named "Salsa
Rueda" attacked the studio.
A team from the Atlanta Center for Infectious Disease Control
were called out to help contain the virus, but alas, they quickly succumbed too. The
former CDC members were recently seen in Tuesdays' Beginning Salsa trying to develop some
immunity. You can easily identify them... they are the ones feebily counting out loud,
"Quick Quick Slow, Quick Quick Slow" with mind-numbing repetitiveness. To find
out how you can protect yourself, click here
The SSQQ Beach Ball is coming
Saturday, August 28...
So What on Earth is the Balloon Race ?
Reprint from August, 1998 : In
case you have never heard of the Balloon Race, this is an unpredictable event because
grown human beings attempt to kick an inflated balloon from one end of the room to the
other. When you kick a balloon, it operates in a fashion similar to the Scud Missile or a
baseball knuckleball in that you can't always guess its eventual direction. This air of
unpredictability makes it even more amazing that the SSQQ Dream Team continued its
remarkable string of victories...
To read more about last year's Balloon
Race, click here
Houston City Whip Championships
John Hall and Gary Richardson tie for
First Place in the SSQQ July Joke Contest !
The results are official. John Hall
and Gary Richardson tied for the July First Place award. With 40 people voting, John and
Gary's jokes each received 18 votes. This was a very wide margin of victory. Past winners
have usually been decided by one vote, 2 at most. By contrast, Mary Collin's naughty third
place winner "Rodeo Romeo" (Blue Side) finished with 14 votes, 4 back of our two
John and Gary took totally different
routes to the top. John's joke, "The Blond and the Lawyer", was only the second
joke he has ever sent me. His first submission, "The Burglary", won 2nd place in the
May contest. In this sense he is very similar to April winner Tracy King. Her first joke
"The Chicken Stud" won the
April contest and her second joke, "Two Cajuns on de Bus" (Blue Side) took third
in May. Both John and Tracy know a winner when they see one !
Now Gary is no stranger to the
winners circle either. Gary is now a two-time winner, which is pretty impressive
considering we have only had the contest for four months. Gary previously won our May
contest with "The Final Exam"
and has had many jokes in the running. Gary sends me several jokes a week. He was also a
heavy contributor to our new "Punishment"
joke page, for which he needs to be severely tortured in my opinion.
Jokes that also did well in the
competition included Judy Walsh's "the Smartest Dog" in 4th place, Carole
Nelson's "the Seeing-Eye Dog" in a 5th place tie with Sharon Russell's
"Don't Fall Asleep in Church". All three missed catching "Rodeo Romeo"
for third by just 1 or 2 votes.
People ask me about the "Blue
Side". Many jokes are sent to me that have Adult themes. Ever since my 8-year old
daughter Samantha checked out my Joke Page back in April and asked me a very embarrassing
question about one joke, I realized a certain amount of censorship was necessary. I am
sure she is not the only kid out there who cruises the SSQQ Joke site. Since then I have
had several parents thank me. It is however very simple to get the address. Just email me
at : firstname.lastname@example.org and ask me to send it to
Last month's winner of the July
Contest, "Christmas in Connecticut" by Kathleen Alexander, actually won from the
Blue Side, the first time a Blue Side joke won the contest. I felt the July Blue Side
jokes were better than the Clean Side, but the judges apparently didn't agree. Only Mary
Collin's joke from the Blue Side placed out of six winners.
I didn't do very well in this
month's contest. Since I run the contest, unlike other people, it is very easy for me to
get a joke published. I just talk to my alter ego and - poof ! - it gets published. Other
people's jokes have to be funny, but not mine. Unfortunately, the judges hurt my feelings
by putting my joke, "Aggie Obituary", in last place of the 30 jokes nominated.
Last Place ! Nor did I do very well as a judge. Not one of the jokes I voted for
finished in the Top 6. Is that pathetic or what ? My wife Judy tells me all the time
I have no sense of humor and after this month's results I may have to start believing her.
She said, "Who on earth put you in charge of the Joke Contest ? You
wouldn't know a funny joke if you saw one." Thank you, Dear.
Like the proverbial dancer that can
never hear the beat, but tries all the time, I admit I may not be the best person for the
job. However I can assure you that at least I try hard. I might add that I am honest. I do
my best not to rig the contest. Once I decide to add your joke to the list, I get out of
the way and let the experts pick the Winners. I vote only to see if my humor is improving
a little. Apparently not.
Now someone who is
an Expert on Funny is SSQQ Staffer Joanne Spuck. I asked each Judge to vote for six
votes, but not to rank them. Joanne only voted for 4 jokes. In order, her picks finished
1st, 1st, 4th, and 5th. That is unbelievable in my opinion. Apparently Joanne must be a
distant descendant of Nostradamus. I would do anything to be as funny as Joanne ! I
am going to call her "Cassandra". Cassandra in case you have forgotten was a
Trojan prophetess who warned the Trojans to leave the Trojan Horse alone. They should have
listened to her !
Now Joanne is a stock broker during
the day. I suggest you ask her about the market. SpuckJ@sgcowen.com
Or simply send Joanne your latest joke and ask if she thinks
it's funny. Then send it to me and tell me "Cassandra" recommended that I
publish it. I will understand.
Kathleen's Riddle !
Kathleen Alexander decided to give me a taste of my
own medicine. After being tortured by the SSQQ Geography Quiz, which she won, Amanda's
Brain Teaser (for which, sadly, Kathleen was forced to grovel for the answer), and now
Einstein's Puzzle, which she solved, Kathleen decided it was time to fight back ! So
she sent me this very interesting riddle. I might add the answer is a fair one, not a
stupid one. In other words, even I understood it.
If you get the answer by figuring it out, let me
know. If you already know the answer from your sordid past, use Boy Scout/ Girl Scout
Honor and sit this one out. And when you get irritated and want to know the answer, you
are welcome to ask for it. email@example.com And if
you want to beat Kathleen over the head with a rolled-up newspaper, just get in line !
Based on some of the initial responses, just to save
time, the answer has nothing to do with A&E's reproductive organs. Sadly, that's the
first place my brain went too.
Disco Queen for a
A group of mountain climbers had been climbing one of the
worlds tallest mountains for what seemed to be days, when they finally decided to
set up camp. Over in the distance, one of the climbers happened to notice a mysterious
looking icy mound. His curiosity getting the best of him, he decided to go over and check
it out. He began to scrape the ice and snow away with his hands, and soon called his
buddies in to help. When all was brushed away, the group just stood there in amazement at
the two naked, perfectly preserved human forms. "I cant believe it,"
said one of the climbers, "Its Adam and Eve !!!" How did they know
with such certainty ?
Recently Judy Archer and several other
partners in crime met at Polyester's on August 5 to celebrate their Graduation from their
Latin Hustle Disco class. Judy reports on all the wrong-doings !
I taught beginning Latin Hustle on
Sunday afternoons in July and, dancing the steps, hearing the music and seeing the beaming
faces of all the Boomers in the room brought back so many great memories for me. I
remember, during my college years in Pensacola, Florida, frequenting a club called
"The Firefly". It had a raised, light-up floor with walls that lit as well, a
live band called "Lazy Day" and was, to me, both heaven and haven. The music was
disco with an emphasis on funk (some may call this impossible) and I could, and did, dance
all night. I well remember wearing the costume of the day, which was what all the girls my
age wore at the time: well-worn Levis, tube tops, platform heels (not too
outrageous) and a long, well-feathered shag haircut. I loved those years and was sad to
see Disco go away.
With these youthful memories clouding my judgment, my Latin Hustle
class and I decided to try to recapture a bit of the past. We met on Thursday at
"Polly Esters" on Richmond, a 70s and 80s club. I went to the
70s side, of course, and there, for the first time in mumble years, I saw a raised,
light-up dance floor (its an original, too; the somewhat worn condition assured me
of that). The owners have taken some care to decorate with reminders of the 70s,
although its done tongue-in-cheek and had none of the slick,
sophisticated-for-the-era feel of a real disco. Several people from the class attended,
including David Schroeder and his wife and Mo Hendrix. David and I danced several times
and I was once again a Disco Queen, sans platform shoes. The one thing that drove David
crazy was the fact that, in open position, my free arm was always extended out to my side
(typical Hustle styling); catching my hand proved a difficulty. Still, we garnered more
than our share of attention.
There was a group of unknown affiliation at the club (they were
wearing the same t-shirt) and they obviously felt challenged by our dancing; since they
didnt know Latin Hustle they decided to dance free-style, which was fine, except
that they would occasionally glare in our direction. Appropriate to the music being played
and the era being depicted, I asked if anyone knew the Bump (cmon, Boomers, you were
there). Mo Hendrix was the only one willing to dance, so we stepped up on the floor and
showed them how to do it. The t-shirts followed suit and, for a brief moment in history,
the Bump was the dance of the moment yet again.
The t-shirts did yet one more thing: a one-step line dance. This
line dance consisted of a jazz square danced several times, a raised arm which signaled a
quarter turn to the left, and repeated. I watched, fascinated, for a change in footwork,
positioning, a turn, anything, but no, this was the entire line dance. I figured Rick
could teach it as a crash course.
My diet Coke having been drunk, my forehead perspiring from
exertion, my dream of disco dancing on a raised floor again met, I decided to head home to
fold laundry. And no, it wasnt quite the same and yes, Im still a Disco Queen.
Possibly unbeknownst to the reader, a Jazz Square
consists of four steps. No, not four moves, just 4 actual steps. Up till now, the Four
Corners, sometimes also known as The Hustle, was the shortest line dance on record with 16
steps. After learning the Jazz Square Dancers meet on a regular basis always wearing
matching t-shirts, as a community service I sent Judy back with a kind donation of free
t-shirts. Each t-shirt had another Dance Studio's name attractively emblazoned on it. I am
always looking for ways to help fledgling dancers.
David Meinert and Eileen MacPherson
announce engagement !
SSQQ Staffer Rachel Seff was happy to report to the Grapevine that her
friends David Meinert and Eileen McPherson are engaged to be married. The date is set for
February 19. (Click here for their picture).
Apparently that sneaky SSQQ Cupid
gets some of the credit, but I might an even sneakier real-life person named Rachel
deserves even more credit ! Dave is a long-time friend of Rachel's. According to
Rachel, Dave saw Eileen for the first time at a Whip practice night at the studio. He
watched her dance for a long time, but Rachel said he didn't the nerve to speak to her
then. The following Tuesday, Dave and Rachel were sitting together at Longhorn when Dave
pointed out Eileen. Dave proceeded to add that he thought she was cute. Rachel rolled her
eyes at his shyness and decided to swing into action. In a scene that sounds
shoplifted from a Hugh Grant movie, good friend Rachel proceeded to literally
"push" Dave into Eileen at the at the Longhorn to force him to speak to her !
Rachel then cleverly disappeared to the dance floor and watched from afar. Her trick
worked ! After half an hour of apologizing for knocking her down, Dave eventually
got up the nerve to ask Eileen out. They have been dating ever since.
In addition to Whip classes, the
couple have also taken some Wednesday Ghost-town classes as well as Aggie Jitterbug. That
makes sense; Dave is a flag-waving A&M graduate. Best wishes to both !
This past week Judy
Walsh sent me the following joke :
There was a family
of moles that lived in a hole just outside a farmhouse. There was a Papa mole, a Mama mole
and an itty-bitty Baby mole. One morning the Papa mole woke up and peeking outside said:
"I smell pancakes!"
Hearing that, Mama mole scurried
up the hole and squeezed in next to Papa mole, sniffed the air and said: "Mmmmmmmm, I smell
This got Baby moles
attention and he ran up the hole and tried to peek out but found his mother and father
were blocking the entrance. Frowning, he said: "All I smell is molasses !"
This particular joke caught me completely off
guard. As a rule, I do not enjoy puns as jokes to read, but in this case it was well
disguised, so I give this joke a lot of credit for fooling me. Some people really enjoy
puns. Since I am open-minded enough to believe different strokes for different folks, I
decided to publish an SSQQ page strictly for puns. If you would like to check it out, click here. SSQQ will not accept
responsibility for any subsequent feelings of anguish you might incur by visiting this
Not Everything you Read on the
Internet or hear about in your Email is True !
I have heard that the Internet is riddled
with lies and inaccuracies. For example, the truth is I tell all sorts of fibs in this
Grapevine Column. So I lie a lot !! Big deal. It is okay if I lie, but I hate it
when someone pulls one over on me. Since I have a bad habit of saving everything, I
occasionally have a chance to go back and compare notes. You might be amused to see what I
have learned ! Click here
Einstein's Puzzle Solved !
Six SSQQ geniuses have sent in the correct
answer to Einstein's Puzzle (see next story below). Richard Bevis
was the first to succeed, sending in his answer the same day I posted the puzzle on
Wednesday, August 4. He mentioned something about the joys of self-employment and that the
gentlemen at E.I. Dupont would understand. I wonder what he meant ?
Debbie Awad might have beaten Richard, but
she felt it was "more important" to go to her Waltz class with Sharon Crawford.
Now I like her priorities ! Debbie's Louisiana friend, David Powell, aka the Cajun
Whipstud (now that is a tough nickname to live up to !), finished it in 45 minutes or so
on Thursday. Soon after Page Brunkhorst sent in the correct answer on Friday ("Page
Brunkhorst" may be an alias. l am not sure, but I am very suspicious). Sylvia Tucker,
aka the recently married Sylvia Key, took time off from organizing her new house to solve
the puzzle on Saturday. She said it only took her 28 minutes. Kathleen Alexander finished
it off on Sunday. She would have finished it much earlier in the week, but first she had
to have her hair dyed brown which meant waiting till the weekend. Actually, if anyone
should not be sensitive about blonde hair, it is Kathleen. First she won the June Joke
contest, beating out 32 other jokes for the honor, then she won the SSQQ Geography Quiz by
a wide margin (see below), then she solved Einstein's Puzzle. Not bad !
Congratulations to all of you !
By the way, I suppose my big mistake was
saying the puzzle took me five hours to do. Maybe that scared some of you off. The truth
is the puzzle did take me an hour, but I was going very slowly since I didn't have the
answers. I figured I better get the thing right if I was going to put it in the Grapevine.
Nevertheless each puzzle solver took great delight in pointing out how much faster they
did it than I did. Well, thanks a lot ! As if I needed yet another reminder how
stupid I am becoming.
I have decided we are going to get all the
winners together and have a giant game of Clue. Then we shall see who the best detective
really is ! Ha !
Einstein's Puzzle : Donna submits a
Brain Teaser !
Donna Ruth, numero quatro in the SSQQ tenure department
(this means she has lots and lots of seniority) recently submitted a brain teaser that
claims to have been created by none other than Albert Einstein himself. Oh sure. And it
carries the caption that Albert felt that 98% of all humanity didn't have the smarts to
lick this problem. Well, that's the kind of challenge that gets my blood boiling !
Anything Mental Gordian Knot that proves I am smarter than the next guy is right up my
alley. Well, five hours later and about half a dead tree in paper, yes, I got the correct
Humbled, but grateful I have managed to stumble
into the elite 2%, I must say the logic test was a worthy one. If you too desire to see if
you belong in the upper 2% of the world's brain jocks, then go for it ! Click Here for Albert Einstein's Puzzle !
January's Tows More SSQQ Vehicles !
On Tuesday night, August 3, two SSQQ students
had their cars towed from the out-of-business January's parking lot. In addition a third
car that was legally parked was unbelievably scratched and dented along its entire side by
the tow truck. Most of what I write about on this page is silly and fun, but I see nothing
but cruelty in Mr. January's actions. There was no warning given, no consideration for the
owners of the cars, nor were any attempts made to even vaguely warn anyone of the actions.
Poof ! Cars were towed. To see a map of the "Forbidden Zone", click here
Now, please do your SSQQ friends a favor and
email a warning to avoid parking in Januarys ever. This is exactly how a grapevine works :
Monkey 1 hears of danger and warns Monkeys 2 and 3. You get the picture. You can list the
address of this web page in your email if you want. Grapevine Gossip : http://ssqq.com/grapevin.htm
For future reference, "Januarys" is
the out-of-business dump on the corner of Bissonnet and First Street at the northeast
corner of the SSQQ Parking Lot. This is the second time we have had trouble with Mr.
January. He hired some low-life tow truck thugs to pull an identical stunt on Thursday,
April 8, blind-siding us then the same way as they did this Tuesday.
The rationale is that the owner is worried
that someone might hurt themselves on his property and hold him responsible. How realistic
this attitude is can be debated, but I am relaying what the low-life tow truck thugs told
me back in April. At that time I put signs up...which are still visible as you enter
SSQQ...warning everyone plus a Bellaire Policewoman named Colleen Herman interceded the
following night. (To read the Gossip Archives on this event, please click here).
I honestly do not know how to retaliate
against a cheap shot of this nature. The only legal thing I can think of is to call his
Realty Company and discuss his actions with them. The simplest thing to do is to avoid
parking where we are not wanted.
SSQQ Gets Turned Down for Credit Cards
In some ways, 1999 has been a tough year for
SSQQ business-wise. Our business has grown this year remarkably. We have had probably 40%
more business this year than last. And last year was a very good year !
We have poured most of our excess profits
back into the studio to the tune of two unbelievably beautiful dance floors, new ceiling
tiles, new music equipment, new pictures, and new air conditioners. As a result, the
studio looks like a palace.
On the other side, I have never received so
many complaints in any one year as I have this year. Sadly many of the complaints were
justified. Yes, some of the classes were over-crowded. Yes, sometimes the studio was too
hot. Yes, sometimes parking was a problem. Yes, sometimes registration was slow. Yes,
sometimes it was hard to see or hear the teacher.
As many of you would agree, it is not that
easy to change the nature of your business overnight. For the past twelve years, SSQQ had
so much space that we were able to handle all-comers. Walk-in registration was our style
of registration. People were welcome to come to the parallel classes at no extra charge.
"The more the merrier" was our motto. And the system worked for twelve years.
Then came 1999. What an enormous headache this year has been.
The only logical solution to overcrowding is
to control registration. This room can hold x number of people, that room can hold y
number of people, and you show your registration slip each night you come to class. No
coming twice a week... Sunday people come on Sunday, Monday people come on Monday, Sunday
people coming on Monday get sent home. Realistically, isn't that the obvious solution ?
One way to be fair, of course, is to let
people get a headstart. For example, if only 30 people can take a popular class, then the
people say in Intermediate should be given first shot at Advanced before opening it up to
the general public. Well, this means pre-registration. And the major tool for
pre-registration in 1999 is CREDIT CARDS.
So I decided to get Credit Cards for SSQQ
"just in case" it came to that point where I had to change the nature of my
business. First I tried my own bank. Nations Bank sent me to some BS company that fed me
this line, "We don't handle dance studios. If you ever become a restaurant, then we
can help you." True story.
So my next avenue was to ask another business
who they use. Mokarow Credit Cards was suggested to me. Now to be honest, I had compiled a
list of perhaps 10 companies prior to contacting Mokarow. You might be surprised at the
number of phone solicitations I receive on a weekly basis. They all wanted to come visit
me. "No, I am not ready yet", but I still wrote down all the numbers just in
case. At the same time, my email was getting spammed like mad by Credit Card companies. I
mean, it was like there was blood in the water ! The volume of credit card spam was
equivalent to one every two days. I was shocked. But I don't trust anyone on the
So I call Mokarow. I get a rude woman who
acts like she is doing me a favor to talk to me. Hmm. We set up an appointment for Friday,
June 25, two days away. I arrange my entire day's schedule around this meeting only to get
stood up. Furious, I call to ask what the problem was. After all, couldn't they at least
call ? Well, they dropped the ball, but I get put in touch with Glen, the president,
who apologizes and says he will come visit me himself Personally in one week on July 2.
Wow ! El Jefe himself.
So instead of the President, Michael shows
up. Michael is brand new. He has been with the firm a week. It seems Glen got held up at
the last minute. Oh sure, Michael. Nevertheless after putting off 10 credit card
companies, it is time to talk to someone. We have a very nice conversation. I point out
that SSQQ has been in business over 20 years. I mention we are the largest dance studio in
the city. I let him know we pay our bills and have a good credit rating. Blah Blah Blah.
Michael says it is a done deal; he just has to go back to the office to work up the
Three weeks later I still haven't heard back
from Michael. So I email him to ask what's been happening. He's been busy. So one week
later I get this email from him. Enjoy !
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but Im afraid thats what I have.
The president of the company wants you to have a history of processing before we take you
on. This means you have to go with another company for a few months so we will have a
better idea of the volume you will be doing. It will also give us a chance to complete all
of the things that we have started on the internet. In a few months we will have all the
bugs worked out and will be ready for the type of volume Im sure you will be
creating online. Someone at the office has a friend at NDC, another processor, and I have
asked him to get in touch with you. I know you have been talking with other companies,
this is one of our better competitors. I recommend that you do not get into any long term
contract. Most companies have a 90 day addendum that they can offer to let you try their
service before you make a long term agreement. Definitely, do not get into a long term
equipment lease. As I told you before, we sell our equipment at cost + shipping &
handling. If someone is trying to sell you something, call me and I can let you know if
its something you need and what it cost. I cant sell you anything until
youre online with us, so this is just to make sure that you get a fair deal. If they
arent offering a good selling price on the equipment, its possible that you
could rent it by the month. Just call me when you have some options and Ill be of
any help I can. Ive seen too many people that made bad decisions because of their
lack of knowledge of this business. I dont want you to become another one. Ill
be happy to answer any question you may have. Im sorry that I cant do more at
this time. Do you know how you feel when one of your dance classes gets full and
theres someone else wanting to take it? Thats how I feel right now. If there
was anything else I could do, I would.
Can you, the reader, believe this email ?
This company actually expected me to find some other company, sign a short-term
contract, prove my value, then re-contact them and beg them to take me ? 'Oh,
please, Mokarow, oh please take my company and give us the privilege of funneling you 3%
off the top all our earnings ! We beg you to accept us !' I don't get it.
First I get one phone call a week from someone begging to come over and make a
presentation, then I get one email spam every two days asking the same, then I finally
agree to talk to a company and they say we need to establish our value. Good grief. I
can't figure this game out ! Somebody please tell me the rules !
Well, anyway, if anyone out there knows a
reputable Credit Card company, please have them contact me at the usual : firstname.lastname@example.org Maybe I'll have better luck the next
Bram Weisman gets Married !
Bram Weisman is a long-time friend here at SSQQ. He has
taken a number of classes over the years. Most recently he was taking the Martian Whip
class on Friday nights until a mysterious disappearance a couple months ago. It turns out
that instead of pursuing his Whip career, he was pursuing his future wife instead. Here is
the email he sent to me :
Just wanted you all to know that I married
Katsumi Matsumoto on July 24, 1999 in Chicago, IL with my immediate family watching.
Katsumi is from Japan. Shes very sweet and a wonderful dancer. I hope you all can
meet her someday. Please forgive the lack of invitations. We wanted to get married right
away, so we could begin her immigration process. We were going to get married at the
Justice of the Peace, but my family wouldnt hear of it, so we flew to Chicago. The
whole thing was pulled of in about 5 days.
P.S. Im working offsite, so any correspondence will be read more rapidly at
if addressed to email@example.com
Congratulations to a very nice guy and
good luck !
Two SSQQ Women have some Negative
Things to say to SSQQ Men !
Unfortunately, this isn't going to be a fun column either.
I received two disturbing emails last week. The senders shall remain anonymous, but you
have my word I didn't make anything up. I am simply relaying the messages to our general
Last night I asked a very pretty lady to dance the Whip. She turned me down, but
took the time to talk to me about it. She told me that she took one month only of
Whip at SSQQ, then quit. I asked her why she quit because it takes several months to
really feel even amateur and that surely she would love it if she only gave it a chance
(she certainly has the figure for it !).
She said she was turned off by the men in the class who kept making comments
telling her to move more sexy
that they wanted to see her grind and comments like
that. She said it really just turned her off. She said she realizes that some men are just
crude, but there were too many comments for her to feel comfortable continuing. I should
say that this lady is very pretty and has a very nice figure. This is a loss to all men
because of a few bad apples that dont realize how they come across.
Our next contribution comes from the world of
Dear Mr. Archer:
I would like to offer two suggestions/comments for your studio. The first one is a
safety issue, the second an etiquette issue.
1. The men at SSQQ need to be taught that safety on the dance floor is their
responsibility. They need to be taught to make sure there is enough room to do a move
before they do it. Countless salsa dancers from SSQQ do not heed this and it ends up with
the woman being sent spinning into others on the dance floor. This can be very dangerous
as well as embarrassing. They should also be instructed that at times there may be enough
room when the move is first started, but something may happen in the middle of the move
and it is the leads responsibility to stop the move if necessary to protect the
woman and other dancers. When a woman is in the middle of a spin or other move, she does
not always have her bearings. Please have your instructors cover this with the classes and
cover it again and again. It is so important and so many guys from the studio just
dont get it on their own. They must be told. It must be stressed.
2. Most men from SSQQ (those from your Latin classes), when out in the nightclubs, do
not lead the woman out to the dance floor. The usual scenario for them is to ask the girl
to dance and when she says yes he goes out there and waits for her there. Another common
scenario is for the guy to want the woman to head out first to the floor. This is not
proper. I think as part of your dance class instruction, etiquette should be covered and
men should be told that they should lead the woman out to the floor. By leading the woman
out there by hand, he makes a path for her through the crowd. I am a salsa dancer. The
"regulars" (nonstudio dancers) at the night clubs always lead the ladies out. I
have taken several classes at your studio and never heard this issue covered. I urge you
to get your instructors to discuss it with the classes.
I like the operation you run and have really enjoyed taking classes at your studio. I
offer these comments to make your students better. The better they are, the better you and
your business look. Thanks for reading.
I will simply say this : In my experience,
the only reason men take dance lessons is to meet women. Given this, certain behaviors are
obviously counter-productive. Crude comments and poor manners are clearly not the way to
impress women. Respect, courtesy, and a regard for their safety are imperative. Women have
their faults too, but I can't think of any mistake women make that would ever justify the
treatment alluded to in the above writeups. For further discussion on the subject of Dance
Etiquette, please consider reading the SSQQ article, "Advice to Men".
For you readers out there, I always enjoy
hearing your comments. firstname.lastname@example.org
Kathleen Alexander wins the SSQQ
Geography Contest !
Kathleen Alexander won her second SSQQ contest in a row
last week and had a birthday all at the same time... July 23, the same as my daughter
Samantha. Kathleen is a school teacher in the Kingwood School District and very proud of
the new pond she put in her classroom. HISD also has ponds in their classrooms, I have
heard, but I doubt they are as attractive as Kathleen's.
Earlier in the month Kathleen won the June Joke
contest with "Christmas in Connecticut", an excellent joke about a mailman who
gets a surprise at Christmastime. Unfortunately, her joke is listed on the SSQQ Blue Side,
an unpublished location where I put jokes I don't particularly want my 8 year old daughter
reading yet. (If any of our readers would like to read Kathleen's first place-winning
joke, please email me and I will send you a link).
Well, school teachers love to take tests and Kathleen
jumped right into the SSQQ Geography Quiz. She didn't get a perfect score. She had a
little trouble with some of the questions that were more of a "puzzle nature"
and less of a research question, but basically she answered 19 out of 21 questions right
on the button. Not bad. Not bad at all !
I hear Kathleen has a daughter at A&M...well, someone
should tell her daughter she has a very smart Mom ! Nice going, Kathleen.
I have little doubt she will try to be the first to solve
Einstein's puzzle as well ! But, now that I think of it, Kathleen has never
solved Amanda's riddle (see the bottom of the page). Gosh Kathleen, what's the holdup ?
You see, folks, that's the problem with success. The
moment you do something good, everyone raises the damn bar on you. Now the next time you
have to jump even higher or here come the critics.
Kudos also to Debbie Awad. She finished in second place in
the contest, but was clearly disappointed she didn't win. Debbie is also mad that she is
going to have to skip dancing for a couple of weeks. Well, Debbie, you can still be the
first to solve Einstein's Puzzle ! Oh, by the way, no one has told me what a Morlock
is yet. To see what I am talking about, please read the next article written mostly by
SSQQ's second best Geography Person, Ms Debbie Awad ! Ta Da !
Riddle of the Sphinx or Why I hate
Amanda Keiser submits this brain teaser :
What is greater than God, more evil than the Devil, poor people have it, rich people
need it...... and if you eat it you will die. What is it ??
(Amanda adds that 80% of a class of Stanford students got this wrong, and 80% of
4th graders got it right. I think she just added this to make me feel more stupid. It
worked. I am so stupid that not only did I not have a clue what the answer was, I assumed
I was as smart as a Stanford student because I got it wrong just like they did. Amanda
then pointed out that just because I got it wrong doesn't mean I am as smart as a Stanford
student because their wrong answers were smarter than my wrong answers. Anyhow, if you
want the answer, see at the bottom of the page)
Now I bet you were hoping the answer to Amanda's stupid brain teaser was
down here. Nope. You obviously don't know how I operate ! I ain't telling you
nothing until you email me with some gossip if you want the answer. No gossip, no answer,
no nothing. You don't have any gossip ? Well, for crying out loud, don't let that stop you
! Just make some up ! That's how I do it...
(Pssst - Want to read some old Dirt ? Want to find out who your boy friend was
dating a year ago ? Undoubtedly a tramp. Find out ! Just click Sour Grapes !)